Relationships

Small Black Dots
I have observed many stories. friendships. partnerships. families. I have even lived inside some of them. And I noticed something. Relationships rarely die from one dramatic moment. They die from a hidden cancer. It grows quietly. invisibly. accumulating over years. no one sees it. no one feels it. until one day, it is strong enough to turn love into resentment, and resentment into distance. I gave this cancer a name in February 2022.
No One Is Going To Save You

We carry this thought in the back of our heads. it is subtle. it is subconscious. it is so invisible that even when you write and write, trying to drag it from the subconscious into the conscious, it refuses to show itself clearly. instead, you only feel the symptoms, the void, the emptiness, the sense of being lost. but beneath all of that, there is something deeply rooted.

Economical With My Words - Advice

when it comes to giving advice, I’ve become economical with my words. I take things slowly, often saying maybe later, or not now.

A User Manual for Being Close to Me

I basically ruined all the friendships I had since I was a kid, and it is me who is the problem, not the people, although I kept myself busy to the point where I don’t feel it most of the time, alongside guilt and fear of making new friendships.

Before You Heal Someone

Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you will understand how foolish it is to think you can change someone else.
— Matthew Hussey

Learning the Truth About How I Love

your growth is directly proportional to the amount of truth you are willing to accept about yourself.

Asking For Help

What is the bravest thing you’ve ever said? Help. Asking for help isn’t giving up. It’s refusing to give up. ― Charlie Mackesy

Adding New Friends System

I get asked:

How do you deal with ordinary people? The ones that don’t bother you? and when does it start that they enter your life?