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The Long Way Around
The strategies we use to keep pain at a distance — comparing it smaller, collecting proofs of being okay, helping others to avoid ourselves, reframing what hurts. Notes on what those routes cost, and what pain becomes when it isn't faced head-on.
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Comparative Suffering : A Habit of Looking down
Part 1 · Dec 2025 · 3 min
On Comparing Pain Without Erasing It
Part 2 · Jan 2026 · 4 min
Helping as an Escape
Part 3 · Nov 2025 · 2 min
Collecting Medals Subconsciously
Part 4 · Mar 2026 · 3 min
It Was Never Power to Me
Part 5 · Dec 2025 · 2 min
Not Broken, Just SubOptimal
Part 6 · Jan 2026 · 4 min
It Grows Teeth
Part 7 · Jan 2026 · 3 min
The Tail of the Monster
Part 8 · Jan 2026 · 3 min
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